You're what you do next!

"I've been a fan of Taylor swift for a long time. She is definitely a kind of inspiration for many. There are so many things that I like about her but the thing that I admire the most about her is that she uses her pain to evolve into a better version of herself instead of just sitting there and doing nothing with it. She once said that I wanna be defined by the things that I love, not the things that I'm afraid of, she claimed that you are what you love. I believe that too. You should not be defined or judged by the actions you did in the past. Whatever you did in the past will always be a part of you from you can never get away with but instead, you can use that pain to make a difference in the future. Whatever you do now is what defines you. People get hurt in many different ways which I understand is difficult for them to move on from but from all of the things that we are facing, there’s this one thing that we forget to realize about is that we have a choice. Choice of what to do next. Our choice is what defines us and makes us different from others. Just like Taylor Swift, you would not want to sit around and cry over something that happened to you no matter how much it was difficult for you to start over but in order to survive we must do the right thing and be a little selfish, for ourselves as well as for others too."